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Self-esteem - why care about effort vs attainment?

Updated: Sep 14, 2021

You should all be able to relate to this post from when you were at school.


If you are more concerned with one's attainment, e.g. grade / target / performance rating that someone receives. When one does NOT achieve this level, #selfesteem decreases


However, if you are more interested in one's effort and one always tries their best, #selfesteem remains intact.


This can be summarised as follows:


person rewarded for target + target not reached = #selfesteem decreases

person rewarded for effort + person tries their best = #selfesteem remains intact



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